Pace Yourself

Today, the world moves at such a fast pace. From the minute you wake up to the minute you finally turn off your mind and drift to sleep. It’s hard, it really is, to remind yourself that life is about stopping and embracing it all sometimes and is something that people must be more aware of.

After you read this, if you take the time to read it all (i know i babble on sometimes) take a couple minutes… Shut your eyes, take a deep breath and just think of everything that is good in your life. Maybe you got the job you wanted, or maybe you have started the countdown towards your holiday, or it could be something as small as your partner cuddled into you in their sleep and it made you smile. If you feel like your having a bad time at the moment? have a think, focus on the little things that make you smile and realise that the little things is sometimes all you need.

The pace of your life is easily influenced by life’s many challenges and the pressure of society that seems to be growing arms and legs. Society, another topic for another day is a large part of our generations problems. Feeling as though we need to do this and go there and make ourselves that to post about it and make ourselves feel better (or worse) by strangers opinions. But what if we pursued our own goals and traveled to the places we want to go based on what we actually want to do rather than “because it will look good on social media”. Take some time out and embrace the moments that you really love or strive towards something you really want to achieve without the thought in the back of your head that says its silly or that people will laugh as; after all; its your life and you are the only person that will look back on it in 30 years or 40 years or even 5 years and think IF ONLY.

So think more of LETS DO IT and less of WHAT IF because it is your life and you control your happiness. So my challenge for you, is to STOP… as in RIGHT NOW and find the nearest bit of paper or your notes on your phone and write down one thing you want to achieve (no matter how small or big) and write down one place you want to go (this may be a country or a town or a beach a hour away from where you stay) and aim to achieve it. Trust me this is such a good thing to do and when you achieve it you feel so good about yourself!! I do this monthly if not weekly and have them all written in a book. Sometimes i add smaller ones in or bigger ones that may take more time and i aim to achieve them, checking them off as i go along.

So you’ve set a goal and a place to visit?? Great!! I wish you luck in this task and would love to hear what you have aimed for!! Send us in your tasks on either:

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Jordan @ ZEALE xx

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Law of Attraction

“You create everything that happens to you. It is only by acknowledging that you have created everything up until now that you can take charge of creating the future you want.”

– Jack Canfield.


One of the main goals of ZEALE is to build a community of likeminded people that are open minded and driven to achieve whatever they want in life.. So here we are bringing to you every week the keys to having the life you’ve always wanted.


The power to achieve your goals are in your hands you just need to open your mind to be able to achieve them. It doesn’t matter how big or small your goals are, they still take the same steps to achieve.


On this post were going to talk about the LAW OF ATTRACTION and how this mindset can really help with having the life you’ve always wanted.


So what is Law of Attraction? How does it work? And how do we use it in our everyday life? Let me tell you.


Law of Attraction in simple terms is the ability and practice of shifting your focus from negative thoughts; whether it be how you view yourself or thinking that you have failed a test; to positive things; appreciating yourself being alive or coming out of a test thinking “yes I’ve did my best and passed it”. Most of us focus on the bad in life instead of the good, we pick out the negative moments of people and life instead of focusing on all the wonderful situations. For Example, being stuck in a traffic jam. Most people will look at that situation and be like “I don’t want to be here, why did this have to happen? Why are the cars not moving?” instead of looking around your surroundings and appreciating the nature that’s possibly at the side of the road or the fact that you have a spare few minutes to sit with your thoughts and have a break from your busy day. Little moments like this and practicing to shift your negative thoughts into positive ones is the start of having a more positive outlook on life in general and the start of achieving everything you want in life.


So, in simple terms:

The things that you put your attention to are the things that you will attract to in life.

It is a positive version of worry.

We look to create new things rather than solving problems.


The place to start in changing your mindset is to have a clear goal or several clear goals; in which you remind yourself constantly of what you’re looking to achieve; and tell yourself every day that you will achieve this goal. You have to trust the process and results will come to you.


The first step to having everything is thinking that you can.


If you want to look into this idea more we recommend:

“Secret” by Rhonda Byrne by

Along with many other resources that are available through the internet, however, these two sources are a good place to start.


‘Focus on the Good’


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Being positive is not a thing that you either have or you don’t; being positive is a way of life, it’s changing your mindset for the better and influencing other people’s mood. Aim to not only change your mindset to be positive towards yourself but to radiate positivity to everyone and everything around you. It’s so surprising how much of an impact you can make on other people from a simple smile, laugh or even a small comment… “Have a nice day” to the person that served you in a shop or telling your loved ones they are appreciated and that you love them can go a long way. People are so caught up in the negatives of life, wether it be their worried about bills or they feel self-conscious about the spot on their face their day will be negatively impacted around the smallest of things without them even realizing it.


The task for me this month is to not only take time to appreciate what my life has become and how lucky I am to have the support of not one but two families and so much love from so many people in my life but to also transfer some of that positive energy into more peoples lives, including strangers. So here is my idea for myself and for anyone who reads this… Tell one person minimum each day one thing that you like about them; that may be the way your other half makes you a coffee in the morning even when their getting ready for work or a feature about a stranger (the outfit they are wearing or the choice of lipstick). I want to go out and hand out cards with positive quotes on them to people that I both know and strangers because everyone needs that reminder that life is good.


So, for those of you that are reading this… you are loved, you are wanted and you are beautiful even if it does not seem that way, trust me you are.IRELAND-127

Our Story

So if you don’t know already ZEALE has been created by my best friend and I over the past year. If you are not our close friends or family (the biggest supporters ever and the people we appreciate most) then you may be a little in the dark as to who we actually are, the meaning of ZEALE and where we aim to take this idea in the future. So here i am (Jordan) to shine a light on the situation.
First of all the meaning of the word ZEALE and the choice of our logo and slogan are extremely important. ZEALE means to have a great enthusiasm towards a goal or and objective and to do this with a positive mindset. We paired the meaning of ZEALE with the symbolic meaning of the lotus flower and the small positive quote “focus on the good” for a greater meaning than because it went well together, we want the meaning of all three of these to make an impact on the judgmental society we live in.
Our end goal for ZEALE is to create a community of likeminded people who are all ambitious to achieve great things and be confident within themselves to chase what they want to achieve. The possibilities of what we can do with our lives are endless and together we can make these possibilities more realistic.
So keep an eye out for new blog posts as we aim to pack them full of information, stories and ideas…
That’s all for now…and remember…
Focus on the Good

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